Friday, June 1, 2012

A FEW FINAL COMMENTS ON CONDOMINIUM LIVING FROM MY PERSPECTIVE.

A RE POST FROM JULY 16 2008. AN OLDIE BUT GOODIE BLOG FROM LESTER NIXON( THEY CALL ME THE COMMANDER!) ENJOY AND PASS IT ON AGAIN , IF YOU LIKE! THANKS!


Big! Giant Alphabet Letter Gold C Helium Mylar Balloon 40".ONDOMINIUM  LIVING.




Again there are many fine buildings with fine honest caring decent people. ( not perfect as only god is no human is perfect though I feel many think they are) Just as I tell a female close relative of mine every man is not bad because her ex husband was!


However the following is what, how and why I feel many condominiums and apartments are troubled, dysfunctional, not what they could and should be places.

There are too many hidden agenda, secretive, non sincere controlling need to get and keep a life, too d----d nosy people in many of these complexes I have visited and I feel where I live.


I have personally heard people in the past say things like,( OH SHE IS TOO PRETTY, SHE WILL GIVE US COMPETITION FOR THE MEN SO LETS RUN HER OUT OF HERE! OR KEEP HER FROM MOVING IN HERE1 HE OR SHE IS OF , SUCH AND SUCH A RACE,TOO YOUNG, OLD, HAS A FAMILY OR KIDS, CAN;T HAVE THEM HERE OR MOVING BUYING HERE.! HE IS IN A WHEEL CHAIR,HALF BLIND OR BLIND, SHE IS BLIND, OH THOSE ---ER ----NG PEOPLE MAKE ME , US SICK, THEY GT TO GO1 THESE OLD PEOPLE, KIDS, ETC OH WE DO NOT WANT TO SEE THEM HERE1 AHH MAN THEY CALL THE POLICE, VILLAGE HALL, ETC AND THEIR LAWYER, WE BETTER GET THEM OUT OR KEEP THEM FROM MOVING IN HERE.) I WILL NOT SAY WHERE ALL I HAVE HEARD THESE COMMENTS, HOWEVER I HAVE HEARD THEM AND TOO MANY MOE, VERY EVIL AND NEGATIVE TO MENTION HERE1 THE TRUTH HURTS THOSE THAT LIE AND LIVE BY A LIE, BUT MAKES THE REST OF US HONEST STRAIGHT UP FOLK EVEN MORE FREE! AMEN! RIGHT ON !

BEING  TWO FACED IS OFTEN THE NORM SAD TO SAY! Being DECEITFUL, CONCEITED( RESIDENTS, MANAGEMENT MEMBERS BOARD MEMBERS ALSO) is to be expected.

Also there is the fact I find in many condo and apartment buildings, favorites and cliques exist. who one knows and not just what you know ( or who you know it on! )THEN WHEN ONE TELLS THEM THE TRUTH THEY GET ANGRY, STOP SPEAKING, ACT EVEN SNOOTIER, OR RETALIATE,OR AT LEAST TRY TO! THEY KEEP THINGS HIDDEN FROM ALL OWNERS AND OR TENANTS NEED TO KNOW ALL TO OFTEN. TIL THE LAST MINUTE.THE MEAN SPIRITED NESS, COMMUNICATION( BREAK DOWN BREAK UP, FRIGHTENING PEOPLE TO KEEP THEM QUIET, ETC I HAVE SEEN THIS I WILL NOT MENTION BUILDING NAMES FOR LEGAL REASON, I HAVE SEEN IT ALL TOO OFTEN! IT IS A DARNED SHAME AND WRONG, MOST LIKELY ILLEGAL! ) DOWN RIGHT HARASSMENT AND THUGGING OF PEOPLE IN TOO MANY OF THESE TYPES BUILDINGS!



FRANKLY, IF I HAD THE MONEY ( I AM NOT A BIG SHOT THOUGH I HAVE A FAMOUS NAME MANY FEEL WE ALL ARE JUST FULL OF MONEY AND THEY WANT TO NOT ALL BUT TOO MANY STICK FEES, SPECIAL ASSESSMENTS ON US! HAVE THINGS GO WRONG IN OUR UNITS, APARTMENTS NOT OUR FAULT AND STICK US WITH THE BILL! ) I WOULD BUY A HOUSE, TOWN HOME OR RENT A NICE APARTMENT. THESE PLACES AREA TOO OFTEN, BUT NOT ALWAYS, NOR ALL OF THEM, A GIANT!,PAIN IN THE -SS! I HAVE DISCOVERED. TO LIVE IN A NICE HOTEL! WOULD BE MUCH BETTER IN THE LONG TERM I FEEL.

Then I feel MANY THINK THAT WE OWNERS, TENANTS , ETC, ARE STUPID AND DO NOT KNOW WHAT REALLY IS AND OR HAS GONE ON! DO NOT GET PISSED ANY ONE I DID NOT CALL ANY PERSON OR BUILDING NAMES, YET ! ,THOUGH I COULD!



Often one has to call or contact authority, their lawyer, family,MAYOR, COMMISSIONERS, etc in these places. I have known of women that got harassment threatened in condo and apartment buildings after they exposed, LIES, FRAUD, STEELING BY PEOPLE IN HIGH PLACES, POOR MANAGEMENT, COVER UPS, SEX FOR FAVORS, ETC! I MEAN ANONYMOUS PHONE THREATS, UNSIGNED NOTED SLIPPED UNDER DOORS,GARBAGE DUMPED OFF A BALCONY ONTO THEM!AND OTHER TYPES OF HARASSMENT. I HAVE GOT SOME OF THIS MY SELF AS A MAN IN PAST. I LEGALLY AND AS A REAL NON WUS NOR --- MAN GAVE IT BACK TO THEM TRIPP LE AND STAYED MORAL AND LEGAL ALL THE WAY!

TOO OFTEN I have gone to board or other meetings and felt few cared and the ones that do have no power, or are being given hell for , caring, SPEAKING UP AND OUT!
NOTES BEING RIPPED OFF OF BULLETIN BOARDS, PEOPLE NOT GETTING LETTERS NOR BEING NOTIFIED OF SOMETHING WE ALL SHOULD BE1 SECRETS KEPT!WORSE THAN SOME OF OUR OWN AND OWN KIN CAN DO! ME ATTITUDE1, HIDDEN AGENDAS! GOING TO PEOPLES , RELATIVES, FRIENDS, NEIGHBORS, ETC, TO GET THEM TO TURN AGAINST THEIR OWN AND OR OTHERS!
SAYING FOOLISH THINGS LIKE, ( WHY DO WE NEED TO KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON AT SCHOOLS, PARKS, LIBRARIES,ETC? WHEN OUR FRIENDS JUST CARE ABOUT A CERTAIN COUNTRY, OR THE CITY, OUR OWN!

YOU HEAR A LOT COMING DOWN A STAIR WAY OR ELEVATOR, OK? WALLS ARE THIN IN THESE PLACES TOO!



PUSSY CAT OR RICHARD IS I FEEL ALSO!TOO COMMON.\

I once head a few former board and management types in several of these places say, (I OR WE HAVE TO LOOK AFTER OUR, OUR FRIENDS, OUR PEOPLE, ETC! THE H-LL WITH EVERY ONE ELSE! WHAT ABOUT ME, AND OR MINE1 ) THEY ARE JUST ANOTHER DOLLAR BILL, HEY KNOW THEY HAVE MONEY, HIS SISTER WITH HIM IS A BIG SHOT WELL OFF NURSE IN OR ( WHEN IN FACT THIS LADY IS A SECRETARY NOT AN OR NURSE NOT WELL OFF) !

THE LIES, ASSUMING, RUMORS I FEEL ARE SPREAD ON PURPOSE. ONE BOARD MEMBER ONCE TOLD ME. WELL WHEN WE GET ELECTED EVERY ONE SHOULD KEEP QUIET AND LET US DO WHAT WE WANT! ( EVEN REGARDING OUR LIVES AND MONEY!) OWNERS AND TENANTS TAKE TO MUCH AND TO TOO MANY PEOPLE ABOUT EVERYTHING IN OUR BUILDINGS.ME AND OUR BUDDIES GO WAY BACK IN THESE PLACES THEY WOULD SAY.

A few times here I have met some really nice ladies ( SINGLE, NON SLUTS, NON ETC.MANY DIFFERENT , NATIONALITIES, RACES, ETC, HEY THAT IS HOW I ROLL, OK? ALSO NO ONE ELSE'S CONCERN I FEEL AND KNOW! I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE HERE AND IN OTHER PLACES EITHER) OTHERS STUCK THEIR NOSES IN MY AND OR OTHERS BUSINESS, PERSONAL THEN THEY HAVE THE NERVE TO GET MAD IF WE OR OTHERS THAT HAVE HAD THIS BE DONE TO US SAY ANY THING ABOUT IT1 HOW HYPOCRITICAL, EVIL , AND DOWN RIGHT DIRTY , WRONG!!!( OH YEAH RACHELLE I USED 3 !!! LOL OK!!!!? )

NOT ALL THESE TYPES BUILDINGS, BUT TOO MANY CONTROLLING, HOME AND RELATION SHIP WRECKING, BITCHING ABOUT CATS MEOWING, DOGS BARKING, PETTY SILLY STUFF GOES ON, WHILE CRIME ( CAR JACKS, HARASSMENT, ATTACKS OF ALL KINDS!,ATTEMPT SEXUAL ASSAULTS, ETC IS KEPT UNDER COVER! )BUT IF YOU GIVE FLOWERS ( A SINGLE MAN TO A SINGLE LADY ) YOU ARE QUESTIONED, WHEN MANY TRY I SEE TO DEAL WITH OTHERS SPOUSES, GUY AND DOLL FRIENDS! OH YEAH!!
I have visited over 110 condos, town home and even apartments in the past 6 years,also seen stuff on line, etc. I feel many of these places are in need of a TOTAL BUILDING REBUILD, INTERIOR AND EXTERIOR!MAYBE MANY A TEAR DOWN AND SOMETHING ELSE CONSTRUCTED ON THE SITES, I FEEL. THERE ARE MANY PROBLEMS,TANGIBLE , INTANGIBLE, EVEN WITH THE INHABITANTS AND WHAT IS ALLOWED TO GO ON IN THESE PLACES, AND WHAT IS HELD BACK.

I FEEL AND WOULD URGE ANY ONE THAT WANTS TO OWN OR RENT IN A CONDOMINIUM ( OR RENT AN APARTMENT) FIND OUT AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE ABOUT THE LOCATION, BLOCK, COMPLEX AND PEOPLE BEFORE YOU PUT EVEN ONE DOLLAR DOWN AND OR MOVE IN ENJOY, BE INVOLVED Do NOT GET PUSHED AROUND, OR BE PART OF A COMPLEX;S PROBLEM. KEEP YOUR EYES ( PHYSICAL AND SPIRITUAL) OPEN AT ALL TIMES1 BE REALISTIC AND RESEARCH FOR YOUR SELF.
YOU CAN FIND GR

GREAT ONE!

LOVE, PEACE, TRUTH! BLUNT HONESTY ALL TOO NEEDED ESPECIALLY RIGHT NOW!!


YOUR FRIENDLY NEIGHBORHOOD COMMANDER!!!!

I COULD ALSO MENTION THE, SEXUAL STUFF( MOANING, GAGGING, GASPING, SCREAMING, PLEADING,LAUGHING FILTH SEXUAL TALK, FISTING, ROMPING, THAT CAN BE HEARD AND ONCE WAS HERE ALMOST ALL THE TIME,


 I EVEN HEARD IT WHILE TOURING BUILDINGS OPEN HOUSES ETC! ONE IS TRYING TO LOOK AT AN AVAILABLE UNIT, THEN THE AGENT LOOKS FUNNY SAYS, HO, HO,UH..I GUESS IT IS A BAD TIME NOW? once the agent she got quiet almost as if the sounds the kinks were making at an open house were about to make her cream on her self and EXPLODE WITH ORGASM! YEAH WHEN YOU HEAR TWO WOMEN, TWO MEN OR SEVERAL PEOPLE GOING AT IT ,
 NOT BEING VULGAR JUST EXAMPLES OF WHAT ONE CAN HEAR EVEN LOUDER THAN THIS ANY TIME IN THESE PLACES.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KDXlS6d0Xoo

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4BcTuaQ3Ymw
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PLa6yfBF3mA
http://www.hark.com/clips/zlvlfcntcr-7-aural-sex 
BUMPING GRINDING UP OVER YOUR HEAD AND NEXT DOOR! ALL ONE CAN SAY IS, NO NOT HERE. LETS SEE THE NEXT PLACE! SOME LIKE TO GET OUR SLEEP, GLAD IT IS NOT A PROBLEM NOW HERE.KINKY LITTLE DEVILS CAN SEEM TO FLOCK TO CONDOS ,ETC IT SEEMS.YOU HEAR THE CRASH OF AN OVER LOADED BY KINKS BED FALL IN A NEIGHBORS PLACE! MY GOD!!!! HUH! SOME MORE HAVE JUST GOT MAD OR ASHAMED I GUESS. THE TRUTH HURTS SOME , BUT MAKES MANY OF US MORE FREE!