BY LESTER NIXON.
There is a song titled ONE DAY AT A TIME. in it it says YEST ER DAY IS GONE SWEET JESUS. TOMORROW MAY NEVER BE MINE. I feel and realize a minute from now may never be ours in this world and life.Nothing is guaranteed to any one in this life and world.
We all at times regress in our mind. We look over where we were in our life experience in the past. We look at our accomplishments,our disappointments.Through it all hopefully we have grown, learned, loved, matured , and have the common sense to realize it. To thank God for it and those he placed in our liefs path and we allowed some to help us learn and grow.
I find it ironic, sad , and a waste of time how so many people I have met, known , and know now seem to LIVE IN THE PAST, SPIRITUALLY AND EMOTIONALLY! They may be 20, 30, 40, 50, 60 100, year, immature silly teen age rs, living and behaving, wildly, like buck deers. LIVING LIFE ON THE EDGE! ON THE WILD SIDE!Still with the same old negative, silly, wild, negative, cliquish crowd from high school, college, med school, technical school, the military, etc.Then when these peoples lives spiral down, EVEN TO THE POINT OF THEIR DEATH AND OR THE DESTRUCTION AND DEATH OF OTHERS, People say OH LORD, MY GOD! HOW, WHY, GOD WHY DID YOU THIS AND THAT? WHY DID YOU NOT STOP HIM , HER, THEM?
When IF THESE PEOPLE, their family and friends, associates, confederates, etc, ARE TOTALLY HONEST ABOUT IT. These negative people and those that followed them , MADE THE CHOICE TO BE AS THEY WERE IN LIFE. DO WHAT THEY PLEAS, DO, HURT, ETC OTHERS, EVEN IF IT MEANS MEANT THEIR DOWN FALL AND ULTIMATELY THEIR AND OTHERS DEATHS!That is a hard BUT TRUE thing to say Then people will give all these wonderful speeches at funerals, then turn around and not even attempt to practice what they speak.
The past. OUR PAST. YOURS AND MINE should be like a scrap book. like a great book we have read, experiences we have gained.It should not be something we are stuck on.Nor should we be stuck on negative, situations, decisions, NEGATIVE MENTORS, NEGATIVE PEOPLE, FAKE SO CALLED FRIENDS, HANGERS ON, USERS!
I at one time in my life believed in THE OUR SOUL MATE! Now I believe GOD has placed several ( OF THE OPPOSITE SEX, I AM NO HATER BUT I AM NOT OF THE SAME SEX NOT , NOT OF THE SAME SEX CROWD! THAT LIFE STYLE NO NOTHING OF IT AND I WILL AND AM NOT COMMENTING ON IT .)People ( different race, may be not from our area, etc )WORLD WIDE.That would make a great spouse for us.Same for people that can be friends .I do not condone nor suggest ( HAVING SEVERAL WIVES, OR HUSBANDS OR DIPPING AROUND, OK? )All too often I hear people say, WELL I WOULD RATHER BE WITH THE WRONG PERSON THAN BE ALONE. Or A job or business that is draining, killing me WELL IS BETTER THAN NOTHING! I am set in my ways so I CAN NOT LEAVE THIS DANGEROUS NEIGHBORHOOD , HOME, RELATIONSHIP, ETC! I SAY BUNK!Life is CHOICE! DECISIONS, CHOOSING. Not excuses Or Well AUNT MIDGET, UNCLE WIDGET, COUSIN GIDGET SAID! Urr-ah if it was good enough for them it is good enough for me.I find this attitude appalling!
BE IT LOVE! WORK, BUSINESS, BID-NESS, LEARNING LIFE LONG! There are choices we all have. SURE THERE IS A RIGHT AND WRONG WAY to do any thing.We are human and make mistakes but should go for the right choice and or straighten up and fly right when we GET ON THE WRONG PATH IF WE DO IN LIFE. Encourage others to do the same I feel.
BING around, Associated with, friending REAL PEOPLE.not those that Just hang aroundto get what they want need, then RUN LIKE AN ESCAPED PRISONER out of our lives, hide, etc! Those types of people that Will shake our hands, hug us, etc, but will also give us a SPIRITUAL, EMOTIONAL, ETC SPANKING, BUTT KICK LOVINGLY WHEN WE NEED IT! GET AND KEEP US OUT OF DENIAL! HELP US AND WE THEN IN OUR LIFE. Be they for our life time, FOR A SEASON AND OR FOR A REASON.Let me say this SOME OF US DO NOT WANT A STARTER WIFE,BUT ONE FOR LIFE. SAME FOR A REAL FRIEND,, CARING REAL RELATIVES AKA KIN FOLK1 ASSOCIATE, ETC.
I have to be me! BE FREE! MAKE MY OWN DECISIONS. not be a puppet on a string!I am a sum total of all my life experiences.I am not and will not ever forget any of them good or bad.I want to live, learn, LOVE, AS I HAVE AND EVEN MORE NOW!I feel young and vital MY JUICES FLOWING.I AM HOPEFUL. I AM TRYING! I AM EXPECTING! I am not negative NOR SUICIDAL, I AM NOT A D--NED FOOL NOR NEED THOSE TYPES IN MY LIFE! IS ANY ONE ELSE WITH ME? Even if not I AM WILLING TO KEEP ON BY MY SELF1 YEAH I AM LOOKING FOR LASTING LOVE LIFE MATE! SO lets GO! GOD BLESS YOU ALL! NOW TO WATCH THIS I FEEL CHICAGO BEARS VICTORY!!
LESTER NIXON. THE COMMANDER!
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