Some things just need to be said because people do not understand or pretend not to.

NO ONE when they are adult and behave as an adult in every way wish to be treated like a child. No one in their right mind and spirit wants to be controlled. no one unless they are extremely disturbed in some or every way wishes to have any aspect of their life control ed by another and or others when they are totally capable of living their own life!




to all those receiving this blog this is for you not about you! OK? great. IF IT WERE ABOUT YOU BELIEVE ME I WOULD PERSONALLY TELL YOU TO YOUR FACE! YOU FEEL ME? I know you all do.


Help is a wonderful thing to offer to some one, HOWEVER it is a different thing to have a person or persons , GO OVER ANOTHER ADULT PERSONS HEAD AND OR BEHIND THEIR LIFE IN ORDER TO CONTROL ANOTHER HUMAN BEINGS LIFE. TO FIX, MANAGE , AND CONTROL , AS MY BROTHER IN LAW Frank says.

NO ONE LIKES TO BE TREATED WRONGLY!, LIKE A FOOL! LIKE A CHILD WHEN THEY ARE NOT! LIKE A CRIMINAL WHEN THEY ARE NOT! LIKE A TOY OR PLAY THING! , LIKE A NON PERSON, A SECOND CLASS HUMAN BEING! NO ONE LIKES TO FOR NO GOOD REASON BE TALKED ABOUT BEHIND THEIR BACK OR TO HAVE SOME ONE TRY TO BREAK UP A RELATIONSHIP O CONTROL ONES SOCIAL LIFE!

People can not, Use the bath room for us, They can not die for you or me when it is our time. They can not accept Jesus Christ for any one of us that has. They certainly do not , NOR ARE OTHERS RESPONSIBLE FOR other capable adults BILLS! So NO ONE SHOULD EVER WANT TO NOR CONTROL A CAPABLE GROWN PERSONS LIFE!

When some thing happens in any ones life NEGATIVE MANY PEOPLE RUN AND HIDE! So why is it when SOME THING OR SOME ONE WONDERFUL OCCURS IN ANY ONES LIFE MANY TIMES Other people want to take credit for it? BECAUSE I FEEL they are selfish, controlling, evil and have a hidden motive or motives!



They choose to be this way and do these sort of things to others. They choose to be malevolent! HOWEVER THEY DO NOT ALLOW THESE SORT OF THINGS, CONTROL, ETC IN THEIR LIVES! WE SHOULD NOT EITHER! I CERTAINLY DO NOT AND HAVE NOT FOR QUITE some time now.


life control and controlling people seem to increase by the hour in our current times it seems to me.

I do not do it nor do I take it! I urge you not to either my friends, admirers and readers!


God bless you all! Have a great day! LEARN SOMETHING NEW EVERY HOUR If you can! I try to . Do GOOD AND BE POSITIVE AND TOTALLY REALISTIC AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE I URGE YOU ALL.


your friendly neighborhood COMMANDER!!!












Lester Nixon. THE COMMANDER!!!!!


BAD ADVICE, COUNCIL, FOLLOWING A WRONG PERSON OR PROGRAM CAN AND HAS LEAD TO MUCH NEGATIVE THINGS, EVEN DEATH AND DESTRUCTION!WE ALL NEED TO WATCH WHAT AND OR WHOM WE FOLLOW AND WHY!!