Communication.
BY LESTER NIXON.
I am often told by people, friends, so called friends, associates ( I DO NOT HAVE ANY MESS CATS NOR CONCUBINES, NEVER HAVE, NEVER WILL )relatives.I heard such and such. Suzie q so and so said she saw you here or there with such and such.When in fact Suzie q Joe blow WHO ha, Who ever told them these things WERE TELLING A LIE!
I may have been no where near such and such a person, place, etc.The people may have not see me for years OR DECADES AND KNOW IT! PLUS THEY KNOW I KNOW IT!MANY NOT ALL , many people love to TELL, LISTEN TO, SPREAD, AND LIVE LIES! I do NOT! I am sure many or all reading this agree with me and can relate to what I am saying.
This sort of LIE TELLING can harm and or destroy relationships, friendships even cause the ultimate!
A person that really cares for and about us Will ALWAYS COME TO YOU OR ME IF THEY WANT TO KNOW HOW WE ARE OR HAVE SOMETHING THEY NEED AND OR WANT TO TELL US .If they need or want to communicate with or be near us.
\How ironic and sad in these time when we have all these forms of communication ( TELEPHONE, CELL PHONE, HARD WIRED AKA HOUSE PHONE,LETTERS YES SOME OF US LEARNED TO WRITE , STILL KNOW HOW AND DO WRITE NOTES LETTERS, COMPUTER E MAIL AND IM, ETC) All this communication IS TOO OFTEN USED FOR CHILDISH NON SENSE, ILLEGAL CONDUCT AND OR IMMORAL STUFF ( BOOTY CALL SIDE MAN SIDE CHIC SET UP ETC, NO I DOD NOT NOR EVER HAVE NOR WILL DO IT BUT I KNOW OF IT AND PEOPLE THAT DO. I DO NOT DEAL WITH THESE TYPES EITHER OK? )Then there are the time wasters OH UH TEXT CALL WHAT YOU DOING? ETC,ETC ALL THIS COMMUNICATION AND MANY CHOOSE NOT TO BUT GOSSIP , LIE AND OR LISTEN TO SAME. Also GOD GAVE US MOUTHS TO SPEAK , COMMUNICATE, NOT TO CURSE CONDEMN, LIE, SMOKE, DRINK AND I DO NOT MEAN WATER, DERB, ETC. I understand not ever one of us have or would do such negative stuff. I am just giving you all examples of how many NEGATIVELY USE THEIR SP EACH AND MOUTHS.Also there are the BEGGARS , THE OOH! I WANT AND NEED SOMETHING PEOPLE that communicate then AND ONLY WHEN THEY WANT OR NEED ( TO USE, ABUSE! ) some one.
Lets FOR THOSE THAT WANT TO AND WILL, THAT DO, COMMUNICATE AND KEEP ON POSITIVELY COMMUNICATING! ESPECIALLY IN THESE TIMES!
INFORMATION SEEKING IN A POSITIVE NON NOSEY, NON CONTROLLING, NON PRYING WAY.
If some one is looking into A BUSINESS WE THEY WANT TO START , BUY, ETC,A church WE THEY ARE CONSIDERING, A HOME WE THEY MAY BE INTERESTED IN,what ever and where ever the situation, thing, place, etc is.WE WISELY SHOULD GATHER AS MUCH INFORMATION AS WE CAN on some thing we are interested in or are dealing with, involved with, etc.
Not in a controlling, deceitful, two faced, prying , nosey way ,, SEEK INFORMATION IN THE PROPER AND LEGAL, MORAL, WAY.Never spying , no negativity, etc.
This is I FEEL especially important when it comes to people.Most important GO TO THE SOURCE. GO TO THE PERSON, SPEND TIME WITH THEM, IN AN ENVIRONMENT, SITUATION and DECIDE for our selves ( YOU, ME, WHO EVER ) if the person, place, situation, etc is some on and or thing we want to get involved with and commit , times our lives to.Can and should we deal with or even be thinking of dealing with it and or them.
SEE, FEEL, HEAR, SPIRITUALLY, EMOTIONALLY, DECIDE FOR OURSELVES!Not listening or being led by others that may be haters , jealous, controlling ( OPEN R SECRET )Our time, Our lives are a terrible thing to put at risk, ruin, or loose getting involved with the wrong PERSON, SITUATION, THING, INVESTMENT, ETC.
WHAT WE SEE, HEAR , SMELL, ETC THINK, MAY NOT ALWAYS BE ALL THERE IS TO ANY SITUATION,PERSON, PLACE, THING, ETC,MAY NOT BE THE WHOLE STORY. WHEN WE DISCOVER THE WHOLE STORY WE MAY FIND THEY IT IS NOT PERFECT BUT ARE EXCELLENT DOING THEIR BEST. THAT A SITUATION IS FINE. We may also find A TOTAL, DEVIL, MALE OR FEMALE BITCH! ( EXCUSE ME! ) , TOTAL NEGATIVITY !
I feel it is a compliment when some one checks me out in every way before dealing with me. HOWEVER THEN BEFORE THEY MAKE A DECISION COME TO ME , SPEND TIME WITH, MEET AND GET TO KNOW ME FOR THEM SELVES! BE IT BUSINESS, OR ESPECIAL FRIEND SHIP AND A LADY I MAY BE INTERESTED IN OR SHE IN ME!
SO, KNOCK, SEEK, INVESTIGATE, NEVER BUSINESS OR BID-NESS DIP. Meet seek find out for YOUR MY, OUR SELVES! OR LISTEN TO MANY MASSES( of people, associates, etc ) AND BE ASSES AND ASSUME!,LISTEN TO OTHERS AND LOOSE EVERY TIME.GOD BLESS Good day. keep it all real all the time.
LESTER NIXON, YOUR FRIENDLY ( UNLESS YOU MESS WITH ME, ANOTHER HUMAN OR ANIMAL NOT BOTHERING YOU AND OR SOME ONE I CARE ABOUT)BORN AGAIN NOT BORN YESTERDAY NOR BORN BY A RIVER RUNNINGCOMMANDER!
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