What I like in a woman.

A REAL WOMANPeople often ask me what I like in or about a woman? What a real woman is to me?

I like a woman that is also a lady at all times. Sure she might at the appropriate times have to snap on some one. curse them out slap, etc them to protect herself and her honor, but still can be a woman feminine about it I feel.Be she in high heels and a nice dress, business suit, jeans , what ever Being a lady, not being afraid to be and show she is feminine a woman is so wonderful and exciting to me!No matter where a woman is or what she is doing or who she is with I feel femininity is a gift God gave to women. It is unique to and for them and I feel does not show they are week or BARBIE DOLL LIKE. BUT STRONG AND NOT AFRAID TO BE A WOMAN AND A LADY. NOT WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHERS AND SOCIETY SAYS SHE SHOULD BE. I feel many in society feel a woman has to be LIKE A MAN OR BUTCH AND FRANKLY THAT A MAN HAS TO EFFEMINATE HIMSELF. I can't accept that at all!

I like for ALL women doing gentleman like things.It is real.me , how I am no put on or come on.HOLDING A DOOR FOR HER.OPENING A DOOR FOR MADAM OR MADEMOISELLE,PULLING OUT HER CHAIR AT RESTAURANTS, ETC, FIRMLY SHAKING HER HAND BUT NOT SQUEEZING OVER HARD, FOR SHE I feel IS A WOMAN AND A LADY. I do not believe in EVER BEING ROUGH WITH OR ON A WOMAN , A LADY NO MATTER WHEN OR WHERE .Brutishness is evil on men ( I MEAN DUDES) parts.I like kissing a Lady's hand IF I KNOW OR LIKE HER AND SHE ALLOWS IT. OBVIOUSLY HER SWEET LIPS IF WE KNOW EACH OTHER WELL ARE CLOSE,( IF BATHED, SHOWERED, KISS HER CUTE TOES, FEET, LOL ) ETC.

In general What I like in PEOPLE no matter their race, sex, etc, personal or business.I LIKE IN A WOMAN OR WOMEN I know and choose to deal with and have in my life.
Honesty.Saying what they want , need, expect, like, do not like, etc.I do and like people to do the same. No one is a mind reader.I certainly am not.In business I find women have been straighter with me than men. Personally in my personal life dealings with them not so much often....I am no sneak NOR AM I A KEEP IT ON THE DOWN LOW TYPE PERSON IN ANY AREA OF MY LIFE , PEOPLE WE LIKE, LOVE WOMAN WE NEED TO SHOW AND TELL, SO WE THEY CAN DEEPLY FEEL IT!

a computer is nothing with out some one to operate and program it.A great woman in any area of ones life. ( ESPECIALLY A WIFE( I AM NOT INTO CO HABITATION AKA SHACKING UP MY SELF FOR MANY REASONS. ) I FEEL! ) is A BLESSING AND AN ACCENT ,, PARTNER, ADVISOR, GUIDE, CONDUIT SPIRITUAL TO GIVE AND RECEIVE LOVE, TRUE EMOTIONS, ANAYLZ TRUTHFULLY SITUATIONS IN LIFE. LIVING TREASURE TO A REAL MAN1 VISE VERSE FOR A REAL WOMAN.I feel as the word of GOD SAYS it is not good for a man to be alone..





Being appropriate with me.I do not like any one especially a woman when I have done nothing to them and may not even know them to snap on me or others I care about verbally, etc.I do not like being treated like a child. I do not feel I act like one or deserve that treatment and never put up with it FROM ANY ONE.

I have no trouble communicating SPEAKING UP AND OUT AND LIKE ALL PEOPLE ESPECIAL A WOMAN , A LADY TO DO THE SAME. SAY IT LOUD, PROUD, CLEAR AS A BELL WHAT EVER IT IS, AS long as it is no as my niece Kim says NO CRAM-BONE TALK. COME ON! COME ONE WITH IT ! NOW!!!!!


I like all shapes, sizes, colors, etc of flowers, not poisonous ones though. I especially feel that way about people. WOMEN, LADIES..

I believe in keeping business business and social social,( PLEASURE PLEASURE)mixing the two can and has caused problems in past. live and learn I say.If a SINGLE( I WANT NO ONE ELSE'S GIRL, WIFE, LESBIAN WIFE ETC OK?0 if a lady is interested BRING IT ON! COME ON WITH IT! LET ME KNOW IT! I feel video games are fun to play NOT WITH PEOPLES , HEARTS, SPIRITS, EMOTIONS, FEELINGS, LIVES, LOVES.People are not play things. WOMEN , LADIES ARE NOT DOLLS , PLAY THINGS. I respectfully refer to ladies Women I respect as dear dolls. I do not mean or think they are living toys to play with or mess over ever!

I WOULD STILL LIKE TO MARRY FOR THE FIRST LAST AND ONLY TIME in my life. NOT HAVE A HAREM like many males DUDES SEEM TO WANT.I like the inside ( NOT SEXUALLY MEANT THAT WAY I MEAN THE SPIRITUAL, INTELLECTUAL, EMOTIONAL SIDE OF A WOMAN , Some one physically lovely TALKING LIKE A MURDER ES,WITCH, SATANS DAUGHTER, ETC! OR LIKE A , NEGATIVE, UNSAVORY, LOOSE PERSON DOES NOTHING FOR ME. ANY ONE LIKE THAT IS DISGUSTING TO ME. NO ONE MALES, FEMALES, FROM ANY COUNTRY PLANET, RACE ETC, Is appalling to me!All males are not dogs in heat as some women ( A SISTER OF MINE USED TO SAY AND FEEL A LOT )

TREAT PEOPLE RIGHT AND RECEIVE , ACCEPT , EXPECT THE SAME IN RETURN I feel ALL HUMANS should do as much as possible. NO WE ARE NOT PERFECT, we all can and should try to improve each second I feel. Accept our faults weaknesses, But no excuses or cop outs.

I AM NOT A COOKIE that passes my self around to be bitten off a little by every one.I feel that sort of thing takes a spiritual, mental,social toll on those that all too often today choose to live that way. UN FAITH FULLNESS , ESPECIALLY IN personal, ROMANTIC relationships is ruining so many peoples lives. TOO MUCH AS MRS HADDY P--NE USED TO SAY TOO MUCH UCKING AROUND IN OUR WORLD. I AM SURPRISED NOT MORE PEOPLE GET KILLED USING THIS TYPE BEHAVIOR, IN BUSINESS, AND ESPECIALLY IN THE PERSONAL LIFE!NEVER DONE IT had FEMALES I THOUGHT WERE LADIES do it to me. no joke.TOO MANY PEOPLE TODAY SEEM TO STAND FOR LITTLE OR NOTHING, SO THEY FALL FOR ANY AND EVERY THING! THEY FALL INTO , NEGATIVITY, HEART BREAK , DESTRUCTION, DEATH.FROM BUSINESS TO personal LOVE ( OR SHOULD BE RELATIONSHIPS)

I learned A LONG TIME AGO in business ( FAMILY LIFE) ROMANTIC MAN WOMAN SORRY I CAN AND WILL NOT COVER THE SAME SEX THING I AM NO HATER IT IS NOT MY LIFE STYLE IS ALL SO I CAN AND WILL NOT COMMENT ON IT ) ROMANTIC LOVE RELATIONSHIPS. IF IT IS A LOT OF STRIFE, HURTS SO OR TOO MUCH OFTEN OR A LOT IT IS NOT LOVE. IT MAY LEAD TO hurt or worse..EXCUSE MY BLUNTNESS. JUST KEEPING IT ALL REAL ALL THE TIME.


PEOPLE NEED PEOPLE. WE ALL DO THE RIGHT PERSON OR PEOPLE FOR US. NOT OTHERS CHOICES FOR US. BE IT IN BUSINESS, RELIGIOUS/SPIRITUAL ISSUES OF OUR LIVES,FAMILY, SOCIAL, ROMANTIC,LOVE, SEXUAL, ETC ( GETTING DEEP COMMANDER!! YEAH I AM I WISH MORE PEOPLE WOULD AND KEEP IT REAL( EVERY ONE IS NOT THE RIGHT FIT FOR OUR LIFE.

So, business, social, spiritual, etc , know any nice real people , great, recommend some to me send them my way. I am no social butterfly NOR AM I ON AN ISLAND. ESPECIALLY REAL nice WOMAN compatible. A believer in Jesus, etc.( NO I AM NO FANATIC AND DEEPLY RESENT PEOPLE THAT ASK ME THAT OR IMPLY IT! ) COME ON especially in my PERSONAL LIFE. I am being totally honest and real here.Can any one relate ?
God bless you all. Good day1

LESTER NIXON. THE COMMANDER!